Here’s a secret. Women do not innately know how-to birth. Every pregnant woman will give birth one way or another. But here’s another secret. Women do not innately know how-to parent either. And the third secret is that pregnancy changes every woman in most unexpected ways. This is good news for you. You can learn the exact 10 skills during the 5 phases of pregnancy so that you move through ‘becoming’ to ‘being’ a father with just the right set of skills to take into parenting.