How to help at a birth? Have birth-coaching skills.
Conception instantly changes your life. You are ‘becoming’ a father with all the excitement and fears. After birth, you ‘are’ a father. During ‘becoming’ become skilled so you ‘are’ a skilled father.
Too many fathers-to-be are freaked. They have no idea what their pregnant partner really wants. Fathers developed Birthing Better skills so they knew exactly what to do. Learn skills.
Men and women are Human Beings. Birth can leave both men and women traumatised. Families developed Birthing Better skills. Using skills mitigates feeling traumatised.
Women can NOT control birth. She can learn skills to cope and feel more in control. You must learn coaching skills to help her handle what she experiences. You have a job. Learn our skills.
Men are ruled by the heart … chest, arms, surround. Our Birthing Better skills will show you exactly how to be a great birth-coach. There is pride in knowing-how.
Look at this photo. Does this new father looked like he is participating or observing his birthing partner and professionals work? Having skills will get you more involved with your partner.
The majority of the Birthing Better skills can be practiced while doing other things. You breathe all the time so use your Directed Breathing while doing other stuff. You’ll learn and ‘own’ that skill.
‘Being there’ and knowing how to actually help a woman cope during the intensity of labor pains are very different. Birthing Better fathers will teach the exact skills to be useful and KNOW it.
You know how your pregnant partner sounds and looks like when she is stressed or coping. Learn specific skill for all births to help her cope well.
The newborn in photo is what’s coming out. Birthing Better is full of skills to create space and mobility inside your partner’s pregnant body. Have your pregnant partner do The Hip Lift on you.