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What does a wedding and pregnancy have in common? Often it’s all about the woman. How many of you were totally and equally involved in creating your wedding or did you often find yourself saying ‘whatever you want is fine with me.’ Perhaps you made some choices about...

In Part 1 we discussed the lack of honoring the time frame of ‘becoming’ a father in our modern societies. This must change and this three part series is designed to change that. In Part 1 you learned about the fatherhood qualities that you need to grow during this...

Your Title Goes HereYour child’s birth is the gateway through which you, your child and its mother must journey in order to become a family or add to your family. The quality of the birth experience influences the quality of your relationship with your family. It can...

The process of ‘becoming’ a father has not been thoroughly explored. Right now, men ‘become’ a father after the birth or adoption of their child. However, after the birth or adoption you ‘are’ a father. Actually men move through ‘becoming’ into ‘being’ a father during...

In our modern societies you will experience one of three types of birth: Labour and a vaginal delivery … whether medical or natural Labor and a surgical birth A non-laboring surgical delivery From that list, it’s really easy for men to think something like this....

Pregnancy changes everything. Once a woman falls pregnant she comes under the care of a midwife and sometimes a specialist and draws attention from even strangers. The focus is SO on the woman and child that you very well might already feel a bit uncertain about your...

During your midwife’s visits you have been asked to make Birth Plans. Perhaps you and your baby’s mother had talked about what you want for the birth of your baby long before you fell pregnant. Here’s your wake up call. You cannot plan a birth. You cannot choose a...